Homme Fatale: The Gay Emosogynist (Part 1)

The faerie’s conquest is inverted. Sex is easier; emotional connection is the elusive bitch. Promiscuous fae are common, highly insecure good-looking faeries are the species' most profligate, but the gay emosogynist deals the most amount of damage.

What is an emosogynist? Celine Lopez (I am a big non-fan of her btw) once had a one-sided commentary thankfully saved by the topic's novelty. The emosogynist is an advanced womanizer, finding his validation of manhood not just through successful sexual conquests but by getting a girl to fall in love with him. In a nutshell, emosogynists are straight men who have found a new way of seduction: a metrosexual flare with a non-threatening sensitivity that can switch off a woman’s guard very easily, leaving open her heart—the latest plaything. Dude acts faggy, gets girl to fall in love, then dumps her. Tits have become rather antiquated. Women have evolved a keener sense of identifying predators, and predators would naturally need to adapt to the new feminist habitat. Charles Darwin is smiling somewhere in heaven saying “I told you so.”

Emosogynists are a new breed of straight men but gay men are just as capable, if not more, of fitting into the profile. It has now become easier for more faeries to find sexual partners through a plethora of social networking sites, chat rooms and watering holes all around the Metro and this convenience dwarfs the actual chances of finding romantic connections. Because sex is easier, getting someone to fall in love with you has become the real challenge. It ups the ante. Games are more exciting when the stakes are higher.

And some have become experts.

There is a new game in town and it’s not Diablo III. However, just like Diablo III, it has sprung from a wealth of technology and connectivity, and just as devious. Some of us may be in it right now but we don’t know it. Emosogyny is a game that a lot of us have played at some point. I’ve had my ride the last couple of years.

To be continued.

13 coumouents:

rudeboy said...

Mmm I love the subject. How very true, how very relevant.

Astute observations and trenchant commentary, Cursive. I'll be awaiting Part II with great interest.

Oh - and co-sign on Celine.

Eternal Wanderer... said...

it's all about the power and ego-bloating.

lost travailer said...
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ash said...

or emosandry? :)

and does it come with the generation?

Herbs D. said...

cant wait for Diablo III and Starcraft. im getting my desktop ready for the onslaught <3

Galen said...

You just have to know how to play their game in order to survive. I've heard that when you defeat an Emosogynists in his own game, he self destructs. Hahaha.

anteros' dominion said...

as much as i would like to comment, hindi puwede..kasi nabiktima ako ng isang ganiyan

crushed me to the guts

and until now, i haven't recovered

citybuoy said...

but we still keep playing in a silly hope that we can change the emosogynist. that we can stop the player from playing. *big sigh*

Darc Diarist said...

i kinda agree with nyl. much like why girls fall for the bad boy. ho hum. hehe

paci said...

amen to darwin! hahaha. =)

wanderingcommuter said...

sana makaimbento ng emosogynist detector... yung tipong tumutunog kapag tinatapat. hahaha!

/iambrew said...

hmmm... now i'm wondering i have ever been one, or if i am currently...

PILYO said...

akala ko kung ano na yung broken heart sa picture...

whew ! akala ko kung ano na.

wala lang, hahahaahah.

HUGS and KISS sau at sa sidekick mo. TSUP.